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ANM Consultants are an associated team of specialists based in East and West Africa with over two decades of Sub Saharan Africa expertise and experience from development advisory, capital structuring and raising, architectural and quantity surveying services, project and development management, to asset and fund management.

Unique Expertise and Experience

We have gained this combined unique Africa real estate investment experience by being on the ground working for leading local, international, and global firms. We have been responsible for and involved in key developments in East and West Africa, from both the development and funding sides, which gives us our unique understanding of the complete real estate assembly and disposal process, a process which is largely disintegrated in our market.

Access to Dominant Transactions

We have extensive contacts in the sub Saharan Africa real estate industry with architects, engineers, quantity surveyors, development and project managers, contractors, land owners, lawyers, estate agents, property managers, valuers, bankers, and fund managers; giving us access to first options on dominant transactions and in assembling opportunities creating a transaction pipeline.


Natasha Mutai

Natasha Mutai has over 20 years’ experience in the real estate sector in Eastern Africa. She has been a team leader responsible for a diversified range of real estate transactions in the region from real estate finance (equity and senior debt) and asset management to project development and property development advisory for various international and corporate clients; has served as a board member for a number of institutions and lectured at the University of Nairobi for several years.

More recently, she has been responsible for deal origination and evaluation, managing client and partner relationships, to monitoring and reporting on the implementation of projects for sub Saharan Africa property funds.

Ms. Mutai holds a BA Building Economics degree from the University of Nairobi, Kenya, and a Master of Construction Management degree from the University of New South Wales, Sydney, Australia. She is a registered Quantity Surveyor in Kenya and a founding member of The Institution of Construction Project Managers of Kenya.


Alexander Mutai has over 15 years experience in Quantity Surveying practice in Eastern Africa, and has been the lead Quantity Surveyor in a diversified range of landmark projects such as Two Rivers Mall, Two Rivers Infrastructure, Sanlam House, Deerpark Housing, Windsor Park, Crystal Edge Apartments among others.

He has previously held the position of Vice Chairman of the Architectural Association of Kenya, Registrar of the Architectural Association of Kenya, Vice Chairman of the Kenya Rugby Union, Director of the Joint Building Council among other directorships. He was among the Business Daily's Top 40 Under 40 Men in 2014. He is a Registered Quantity Surveyor and Member of the Architectural Association of Kenya, the Institute of Quantity Surveyors of Kenya and the Chartered Institute of Arbitrators.

Alexander Mutai

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Sep 15 21

Exactly Why Are We Maybe Perhaps Maybe Not ‘Officially’ Dating? Someone’s requirements are now being ignored pt.2


Exactly Why Are We Maybe Perhaps Maybe Not ‘Officially’ Dating? Someone’s requirements are now being ignored pt.2

Fear of Vulnerability: ‘i recently have actually way too much psychological luggage appropriate now’

This actually feels as though bullshit excuse no.1.

If somebody keeps in seeing you, but keeps on distancing you by saying something similar to the aforementioned, they might you need to be a waste of the time. Upright.

Needless to say, folks have harder and easier moments for which to possess a relationship. But i believe one of the greatest mistakes I’ve seen amongst friends is them determining that they’ll ‘wait it away’ when it comes to person become ‘stable sufficient’ for the relationship.

I believe you’ll wait, if it is an acceptable amount of time and you also aren’t pinning your every and final hope on the ultimately coming round. You can easily wait, but wait at a distance that is short. Decide to try your absolute best become at simplicity using the doubt, because if you’re likely to await them to have more than a fear to be susceptible, you may be waiting a long time.

Therefore, i’d like to help you save some power and time: this individual will never be magically ‘ready’ for you personally at a definite, decisive minute. Odds are they’re going to need either a critical kick within the bum in order to make a choice, or perhaps you simply have to allow them to go and allow them to figure down their point of view sucks by themselves.

You can’t force anyone to get ready. Therefore once more, this might be about quantifying where your patience stops.

Someone’s Embarrassment: ‘Am we just resting over, or are we venturing out?’

We have buddies that have begun seeing individuals and it quickly dropped right into a pattern… The old, ‘come to my place’ pattern. Which designed a very important factor.

And while that’s perfectly fine, if you’re wanting the full on relationship with this particular individual who never ever really wants to satisfy outside their bedroom, that is an issue. Why aren’t you likely to a cafe? Or the movies? Or even for a walk? Do you really talk much? What’s the foundation of your relationship?

That isn’t merely a getting-out-the-house that is physical thing. It’s additionally a emotional thing. When they are constantly area level with you or keeping talk with the very least, this will be tricky.

You can find good and bad methods this could get. They are able to, in a view that is positive you should be bashful. Or uncertain. Possibly they aren’t yes what you would like through the potential-relationship either. Or even it really is simply time to recommend a various task.

In a poor light, often this covers someone’s embarrassment, or hesitancy, around dating a person. Don’t allow yourself be see your face. Some bravery is necessary right here to venture out for a limb and say, “Why don’t we visit a real restaurant today for lunch?”

Whenever ever you can never obtain the relationship much much much deeper than area, some body is keeping right right back. Consider: exactly why is that? And when it’s depth and intimacy and the ability to be publicly with your potential bae that you want if you can’t see the answer, it might be time for a direct conversation.

Someone’s perhaps not that interested: ‘i simply don’t have enough time at this time’

Information flash: there’s hardly ever a ‘perfect time’ to begin a relationship. Everyone’s busy. Everyone’s going right on through shit. There’s never ever likely to be an ideal, peaceful, stable duration where most of the planets have actually aligned with time so that you could meet up with the One. Forget all of that.

Every relationship has challenges, obviously. Split lifestyles need certainly to somehow get together and unify split, separate people. This is certainly difficult, and does need concessions.

Nevertheless the individual who is not prepared to compromise is possibly too immature or too afraid to truly have relationship. They might truly be busy, but and also this shows that probably the relationship is not exactly a concern.

That’s completely fine, for as long as you don’t allow it arrive at you. You can’t get a grip on one other person’s schedule (or their willingness) most likely.

It is well worth checking, after a right time, in the event that individual does indeed as you and would like to spending some time with you. When they will make that right time for your needs.

Asking for confirmation or reassurance isn’t the end worldwide. And in short supply of asking every all day, which could get annoying, it shouldn’t really be judged, in my opinion day. You want to know — at some true point or other — that the individual we’re pursuing is actually interested. Much more than relationship.

A synopsis: It’s all about requirements and acceptance

Angst over our relationship status appears to originate from a places that are few. Either:

  1. Not necessarily once you understand that which we want or require
  2. Ignoring that which we want or require away from fear/embarrassment/etc
  3. Not articulating or becoming not able to articulate our needs.

In every these situations, the idea between being enthusiastic about some body and also dealing with take a relationship using them may be drawn away, confused or emotionally taxing.

It requires time for you to challenge our narratives that are in-built our founded hesitations or worries. But keep in mind:

  • You may be beneficial, along with requirements — you will be permitted to have needs. everyone else does.
  • Should you feel a game has been played with you, challenge it. just Take ownership of one’s worth!
  • It really isn’t incorrect to desire to feel safe. In virtually any kind of relationship you’re in. The right is had by you to feel safe.

Fundamentally you have to consider: exactly just just What would you really would like through the situation? would you genuinely wish to be with this specific individual? And just exactly what have they done to demonstrate you they would like to be with you? And in case absolutely absolutely nothing, why the fuck perhaps perhaps not?

Excuse my language, but on issues associated with the heart… i love to be direct. I enjoy know where We stay.

I really hope, over it, you find the clarity you need if you are unsure, confused and hurting. Own your feelings, and look closely at the emotions of the potential mate. Be ample, but company in your needs that are own.