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Specialist Team

ANM Consultants are an associated team of specialists based in East and West Africa with over two decades of Sub Saharan Africa expertise and experience from development advisory, capital structuring and raising, architectural and quantity surveying services, project and development management, to asset and fund management.

Unique Expertise and Experience

We have gained this combined unique Africa real estate investment experience by being on the ground working for leading local, international, and global firms. We have been responsible for and involved in key developments in East and West Africa, from both the development and funding sides, which gives us our unique understanding of the complete real estate assembly and disposal process, a process which is largely disintegrated in our market.

Access to Dominant Transactions

We have extensive contacts in the sub Saharan Africa real estate industry with architects, engineers, quantity surveyors, development and project managers, contractors, land owners, lawyers, estate agents, property managers, valuers, bankers, and fund managers; giving us access to first options on dominant transactions and in assembling opportunities creating a transaction pipeline.


Natasha Mutai

Natasha Mutai has over 20 years’ experience in the real estate sector in Eastern Africa. She has been a team leader responsible for a diversified range of real estate transactions in the region from real estate finance (equity and senior debt) and asset management to project development and property development advisory for various international and corporate clients; has served as a board member for a number of institutions and lectured at the University of Nairobi for several years.

More recently, she has been responsible for deal origination and evaluation, managing client and partner relationships, to monitoring and reporting on the implementation of projects for sub Saharan Africa property funds.

Ms. Mutai holds a BA Building Economics degree from the University of Nairobi, Kenya, and a Master of Construction Management degree from the University of New South Wales, Sydney, Australia. She is a registered Quantity Surveyor in Kenya and a founding member of The Institution of Construction Project Managers of Kenya.


Alexander Mutai has over 15 years experience in Quantity Surveying practice in Eastern Africa, and has been the lead Quantity Surveyor in a diversified range of landmark projects such as Two Rivers Mall, Two Rivers Infrastructure, Sanlam House, Deerpark Housing, Windsor Park, Crystal Edge Apartments among others.

He has previously held the position of Vice Chairman of the Architectural Association of Kenya, Registrar of the Architectural Association of Kenya, Vice Chairman of the Kenya Rugby Union, Director of the Joint Building Council among other directorships. He was among the Business Daily's Top 40 Under 40 Men in 2014. He is a Registered Quantity Surveyor and Member of the Architectural Association of Kenya, the Institute of Quantity Surveyors of Kenya and the Chartered Institute of Arbitrators.

Alexander Mutai

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Sep 21 21

Dating a Widower: whenever Will he get ready to Love Again?


Dating a Widower: whenever Will he get ready to Love Again?

I’ve told him that i’d like what to remain simply the means these are typically. I’m perhaps perhaps not asking any longer of him. We have been very happy together, therefore I desire to simply appreciate that which we have. I recently celebrated my birthday that is 60th he took me personally away for just two gorgeous months in Arizona. We additionally brought within the brand New together year. He has got been therefore intimate, and it had been said by him was the very best New Year’s he’s had in several years.

My concern is because I am the first woman he’s dated since the loss of his wife that he will never commit. He’s got never ever said he cares for me personally, but he constantly functions like we are “together.” He is therefore wonderful in my experience. I’m actually falling in love with him but don’t would you like to frighten him away.

The length of time does it often have a man to feel he’s prepared for dedication after being widowed? I’m so afraid that following the vacation stage of y our relationship has ended, he may have the desire to try out. We don’t want to waste time or have my heart broken. I really hope you can provide some advice if you ask me about dating a widower.

First, kudos for your requirements when planning on taking the right time and energy to concentrate on your self for the first two years post-divorce. So essential. I did so the exact same, and the quality has been improved by it of my entire life exponentially.

With regards to widowers, each one of these should be considered to be a person situation.

No two different people are exactly alike and process into the same manner. Widowers vary inside their readiness for dating and relationships. Some never proceed, yet others date very nearly just after loss with mixed outcomes.

Now, let’s go through the relationship you’re in using this widower, once you understand which you came across him just 9 months after losing their spouse. He didn’t take much time to heal before dating unlike you. He did inform you from the beginning which he wasn’t ready for anything serious.

I’m afraid that you will find met him during the wrong time.

Once you begin dating someone who’s not on a single web page while you, it is extremely hard for him to come around and start to become the thing you need him become. It is far more effective to begin dating a person who is emotionally available and build from there.

Just exactly What took place has occurred, along with your gut is letting you know that your particular emotions for him are stronger than his for you. He does not say he cares for you personally, but he could be showing their affection through their actions. He’s still on Match, and you’ve power down your profile. You’re scared he’ll tire of you and would like to play. You might or may possibly not be appropriate. But, your instinct is sensible. Don’t override it.

Have courageous discussion you feel with him about how.

Understand what you’ll want in a relationship, and don’t compromise that for anybody, no matter what awesome they’ve been. I will suggest you have got a courageous conversation with him regarding the emotions and issues. He might shock both you and inform you that he is dropping in deep love with you, too. In which he could also say he’s instead of the page that is same. Be equipped for any answer. Because painful as it can be to listen to that he does not wish what you need, it will likely be better to learn the facts now and leave together with your dignity intact than to keep hoping he’ll somehow come around.